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A love triangle (also called a romantic love triangle or a romance triangle) is usually a romantic relationship involving three people. While it can refer to two people independently romantically linked with a third, it usually implies that each of the three people has some kind of relationship to the other two. The relationships can be friendships, romantic, or familial. "Although the romantic love triangle is formally identical to the friendship triad, as many have noted their actual implications are quite different....Romantic love is typically viewed as an exclusive relationship, whereas friendship is not."〔R. P. Abelson/R. C. Schank, ''Beliefs, Reasoning, and Decision-Making'' (1994), p. 223.〕 Statistics suggest that, in Western society, "wittingly or not, most adults have been involved in a love triangle".〔A. Pam/J. Pearson, ''Splitting Up'' (1998), p. 149.〕 Two main forms of love triangle have been distinguished: "there is the ''rivalrous triangle'', where the lover is competing with a rival for the love of the beloved, and the ''split-object triangle'', where a lover has split their attention between two love objects".〔Deidre Johnson, ''Love: Bondage or Liberation'' (London, 2010) p. 6.〕 ==History and definitions== The term "love triangle" generally connotes an arrangement unsuitable to one or more of the people involved. One person typically ends up feeling betrayed at some point (e.g., "Person A is jealous of Person C who is having a relationship with Person B who, in Person A's eyes, is 'his/her' person.").〔David Cooper, ''The Death of the Family'' (Penguin 1974) p. 49〕 A similar arrangement that is agreed upon by all parties is sometimes called a triad, a type of ''polyamory'', although polyamory usually implies sexual relations. Within the context of monogamy, love triangles are inherently unstable, with unrequited love and jealousy as common themes. In most cases, the jealous or rejected first party ends a friendship--and sometimes even starts a fight with--the second party over the third-party love interest. Though rare, love triangles have been known to lead to murder or suicide committed by the actual or perceived rejected lover. Psychoanalysis has explored 'the theme of erotic love triangles and their roots in the Oedipal triangle'.〔Johnson, p. 6〕 Experience suggests that 'a repeated pattern of forming or being caught in love triangle can be much dissolved by beginning to analyse the patterns of the childhood relationship to each parent in turn and to both parents as a couple'.〔Johnson, p. 6〕 In such instances, 'you find men who are attracted only by married woman but who can't sustain the relationship if it threatens to become more than an affair. They ''need'' the husband to protect them from a ''full'' relationship...as women who repeatedly get involved with married men need the wives'.〔Robin Skynner/John Cleese, ''Families and How to Survive Them'' (1994) p. 268-9〕 抄文引用元・出典: フリー百科事典『 ウィキペディア（Wikipedia）』 ■ウィキペディアで「Love triangle」の詳細全文を読む スポンサード リンク
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